The purpose of this study is to comprehensively examine the phenomenon of disappearances among gay men in South Africa, with a particular focus on how it is portrayed and understood within online media platforms. By employing a qualitative approach, the research seeks to uncover the descriptive processes involved in online reports constructing, interpreting, and contesting the narratives surrounding these disappearances. This investigation aims to shed light on the nuanced portrayal of gay men and the underlying societal dynamics at play in the South African context, especially concerning issues of gender-based violence, abduction, victimisation, and queercide. In terms of its practical relevance to anthropological sciences, this study provides valuable insights into the complex intersection of socio-cultural factors contributing to the susceptibility of gay men to disappear. By analysing the framing of these incidents within online media, the research offers an insight into broader societal attitudes towards gender, sexuality and how it is expressed, and marginalisation. Additionally, by unpacking the discourses perpetuated by media narratives, such as the circumstances surrounding the disappearance of the victim, the involvement of social media or “hookup apps”, and the socio-economic position of the gay male subject, the study contributes to a deeper understanding of the challenges faced by gay men in navigating their identities and safety within the cultural context of South Africa. Furthermore, the findings of this research hold significance for advocacy, policy-making, and community empowerment efforts aimed at addressing the phenomenon of queercide and promoting the rights and safety of LGBTIQ+ individuals. By identifying how online media frames shape public discourse and perceptions of these issues, the study offers an understanding that can inform strategies for promoting social change and fostering inclusive and supportive environments for marginalised communities.