The Nepal-India border is legally and culturally considered as “open” facilitates seamless crossings for nationals of both nations. Indeed, the border citizens traverse it multiple times daily, engaging in everyday chores such as shopping, socialising, work and caregiving. Typically unaffected by national and political crises, including the Maoist civil war (1996-2006) and the devastating earthquake (2015), this border only experienced brief periods of closures in the days leading up to national elections in either country. Even amidst diplomatic tensions sparked between the two countries following the promulgation of Nepal’s 2015 constitution, disruptions at the border were temporary, leaving the enduring perception of openness unscathed. However, the arrival of the coronavirus resolutely altered this narrative as the border became tightly sealed. Hazardous quarantine facilities sprang up on both sides, detaining regular crossers caught on the wrong side during this pivotal moment in civilization’s passage. This paper hears testimonials of three Nepalis profoundly affected by the crisis, examining how these individuals continue to grapple with their experiences four years later. Central to this exploration is the comprehension of death, mourning, limitations of medical care, and the upheaval of livelihoods. Beyond these, the trauma endured by my informants also reflects difficulty in aligning their lived realities with the policies crafted to alleviate their burdens and the way they see those around them “move on”. How do individuals navigate life amidst such multifaceted challenges? This examination reflects on the resilience and adaptability of individuals within communities facing unprecedented adversity.